One of the biggest disagreements/fights/arguments/whatever you want to call it the BF and I get into is about planning. I love it. He doesn’t.
I love to know what’s going on, what I’m going to be doing.
He doesn’t like to think that far ahead, likes to do things on the spot, and it drives me freakin’ nuts.
How do you not like to have a plan? How do you not like to know what you’re doing next weekend or next month or the next day? Planning gives you something to look forward to, something to get you excited when you wake up in the morning.
Sure being spontaneous is fun sometimes but come on, you can’t live like that forever. Or maybe you can.
I like planning so much that I get so excited about calendars. Flipping the calendar over the to the next month. Downloading the newest Free People wall paper calendar (love them!).
Is that weird? Probably. But hey, whatever makes you happy, right?